WoW 108 : On determining what you want. Questions, Part 2
Words of Wisdom 108 on determining what you want. Questions, Part 2
00:06 Understanding What Truly Matters
01:00 The Power of Questions for Self-Discovery
01:14 The Role of Desire in Helping Others
01:43 Inspirational Quotes on Desire
02:49 Questions to Understand Your Desires
03:38 The Importance of Meaningful Action
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Transcript
Words of Wisdom 1 0 8 on determining what you want.
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:Questions part two.
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:Sometimes we are so busy with the status
quo or looking at what others are doing,
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:we fail to pray and reflect deeply on
what is most important for us to be doing.
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:It doesn't really matter what others
are doing, that's out of your control.
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:What matters is what you steward
and what God has entrusted to you.
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:What matters is that you are earnestly
headed in a purposeful direction.
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:What matters is that you are showing up
each day open to whatever God has for you.
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:What matters is that you feed the
fire of passion and courageously
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:take the next step forward.
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:What matters is that you focus your
life on loving and serving others.
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:But sometimes it is difficult
to identify what matters most.
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:To cut through the uncertainty,
learn to ask powerful questions.
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:Asking powerful questions in a
helpful order, is a wonderful
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:tool for self-discovery.
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:If you aren't sure what you should
want, focus your desire on what will
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:help other people Look to people
who best model helping others and
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:seek to be shaped by their desires.
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:Then take action in becoming as
skilled as possible in helping others.
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:The more you desire creating value for
others, the better everything will be
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:for you and others in the long run.
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:Quotes.
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:Gerard believed that all true desire, the
post instinctual kind is metaphysical.
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:People are always in search of something
that goes beyond the material world.
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:If someone falls under the
influence of a model, who mediates
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:the desire for a handbag, it's
not the handbag they are after.
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:It's the imagined newness of being.
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:They think it will bring Desire
is not of this world by Luke
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:Burgess in his book, wanting
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:Jesus's command to follow him is a command
to align our loves and longings with his
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:to want what God wants to desire, what God
desires, to hunger and thirst after God,
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:and crave a world where he is all in all.
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:A vision encapsulated by the
shorthand, quote, the Kingdom of God.
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:By James KA Smith.
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:In his book, you are what you love.
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:Questions, what do you want?
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:What is actually underneath what you want?
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:Will accomplishing what you want,
get you what you really want?
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:How valuable is what you want.
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:What are the most meaningful
desires you can have?
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:To what degree do you desire
the simple and quiet life?
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:How close are God's
desires and your desires?
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:. Use these questions as a journal
prompt and prayers this week.
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:Endnote, taking action without
taking meaningful action is a way to
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:look busy, but it lacks substance.
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:Continue to take time to ask yourself
about what you want, honing your
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:desires so that you can take the
most meaningful actions possible.
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:Live wisely.
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:Josh,