WoW 110: On curiosity improving your questions. Questions, Part 4
Show Notes
00:00 Introduction to Curiosity
00:09 The Power of Curiosity
00:44 The Role of Curiosity in Conversations
01:15 Growing Your Curiosity
01:34 Inspirational Quotes on Curiosity
02:02 Questions to Foster Curiosity
02:45 Practical Application of Curiosity
02:52 Conclusion: The Impact of Curiosity
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Links
Curiosity means you can grow and experience powerful transformation.
Roland Lazenby, Michael Jordan: A Life
Scott Berlin, The Dance of the Possible
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Transcript
words of wisdom, one 10 On curiosity, improving your questions.
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:Questions part four.
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:Curiosity is simple but incredible.
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:Curiosity means you're open-minded.
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:Curiosity means you're
open to having empathy.
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:Curiosity means you can improve your
connection with whoever you're talking to.
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:curiosity means you can grow and
experience powerful transformation.
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:Without curiosity you are close-minded,
think you know best, and are shut
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:down to someone else having a
different experience than your own.
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:When you're curious, you
open the door to possibility.
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:Every conversation is an
opportunity to be curious.
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:Familiarity with a person or an idea
can tempt you to stop being curious,
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:so continue to work on feeding
your curiosity, seeking to learn
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:and practicing asking questions.
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:If you want more intimacy,
trust, insights, creativity,
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:and joy, grow your curiosity.
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:Make curiosity your superpower.
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:One of the most powerful ways
to grow in curiosity is by
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:asking intentional questions.
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:Listen with intense curiosity
and ask intentional questions.
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:It's one of the most
profound ways you can love.
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:Quotes.
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:"My greatest skill was being Teachable."
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:By Roland Lazenby, quoting Michael Jordan
in his book, Michael Jordan, A Life.
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:"You must be intensely curious about why
things are the way they are to imagine
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:the better ways they could become."
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:By Scott Berlin, the dance
of the Possible Questions.
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:How curious am I in this conversation?
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:What follow-up questions can I ask?
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:How else might I approach this situation?
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:What are the possibilities here?
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:What's important about that to you?
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:Can you tell me more about that?
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:What is the story that led to that?
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:Is there something that you'd
like me to do differently?
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:What is not being said?
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:What is here that you want to explore?
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:What other options are there?
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:What do you make of it?
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:Use these questions to journal
or as a prayer prompt this week.
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:Endnote.
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:Growing your curiosity in one
area can help you in another.
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:Practice being curious today in
asking others intentional questions.
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:Live wisely, Josh.