Episode 20

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22nd Nov 2023

WoW 110: On curiosity improving your questions. Questions, Part 4

Show Notes

00:00 Introduction to Curiosity

00:09 The Power of Curiosity

00:44 The Role of Curiosity in Conversations

01:15 Growing Your Curiosity

01:34 Inspirational Quotes on Curiosity

02:02 Questions to Foster Curiosity

02:45 Practical Application of Curiosity

02:52 Conclusion: The Impact of Curiosity

About Josh Kalsbeek, LMFT

• As a Psychoherapist I help people overcome their greatest struggles.

•Founder and CEO of Great Oaks Collective, and it's flagship program Overcome, a 10-Week virtual Intensive Outpatient Program for Christian couples experiencing sexual betrayal and addiction. www.greatoakscollective.com

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Links

Curiosity means you can grow and experience ​powerful transformation​

Roland Lazenby, ​Michael Jordan: A Life​

Scott Berlin, ​The Dance of the Possible​

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Transcript
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words of wisdom, one 10 On curiosity, improving your questions.

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Questions part four.

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Curiosity is simple but incredible.

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Curiosity means you're open-minded.

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Curiosity means you're

open to having empathy.

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Curiosity means you can improve your

connection with whoever you're talking to.

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curiosity means you can grow and

experience powerful transformation.

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Without curiosity you are close-minded,

think you know best, and are shut

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down to someone else having a

different experience than your own.

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When you're curious, you

open the door to possibility.

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Every conversation is an

opportunity to be curious.

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Familiarity with a person or an idea

can tempt you to stop being curious,

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so continue to work on feeding

your curiosity, seeking to learn

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and practicing asking questions.

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If you want more intimacy,

trust, insights, creativity,

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and joy, grow your curiosity.

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Make curiosity your superpower.

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One of the most powerful ways

to grow in curiosity is by

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asking intentional questions.

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Listen with intense curiosity

and ask intentional questions.

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It's one of the most

profound ways you can love.

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Quotes.

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"My greatest skill was being Teachable."

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By Roland Lazenby, quoting Michael Jordan

in his book, Michael Jordan, A Life.

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"You must be intensely curious about why

things are the way they are to imagine

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the better ways they could become."

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By Scott Berlin, the dance

of the Possible Questions.

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How curious am I in this conversation?

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What follow-up questions can I ask?

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How else might I approach this situation?

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What are the possibilities here?

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What's important about that to you?

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Can you tell me more about that?

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What is the story that led to that?

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Is there something that you'd

like me to do differently?

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What is not being said?

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What is here that you want to explore?

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What other options are there?

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What do you make of it?

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Use these questions to journal

or as a prayer prompt this week.

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Endnote.

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Growing your curiosity in one

area can help you in another.

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Practice being curious today in

asking others intentional questions.

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Live wisely, Josh.

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About the Podcast

Words of Wisdom
Brief reflections from a psychotherapist to help you grow in the skills of virtuous living.
Wisdom is the most important skill in life. Yet do you really know how to grow in wisdom? Get brief, weekly reflections Josh Kalsbeek, LMFT. A psychotherapist and the CEO of www.greatoakscollective.com, Josh will help you learn how to live wisely. Learn more about Josh at www.joshkalsbeek.com or www.wisecraft.org.